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I like the brands that I work with to be friends with their consumers.
I was reading an article about ‘friends with benefits’, which is not a bad way of describing the current relationship between brands and consumers- mostly useful, sometimes amusing and yet there is no commitment, real affinity or long term relationship.
Take Aristotle’s concept of friendship. He proposed three models: friendship based on utility (a friend who provides something useful to us); friendship based on pleasure (we enjoy a friend’s company); and friendship based on virtue or mutual admiration (we find a friend who shares our values).
You can see in the Brand Utility movement the notion of the first model. It has at it’s heart the notion that, in order to achieve engagement, marketers should create widgets or things that consumers can actually use.
Undoubtedly most brands have surfed the wave of Pleasure: the friendship has been based on amusing and entertaining brand experiences.
Increasingly brands also have a Virtue component too, usually bundled away at the back. There are, of course great examples like this , this and this.
As Aristotle would argue, the reason friendships based on utility are incomplete, is that they are motivated by short-term considerations and are contingent on changeable circumstances. Similarly, friendships based on pleasure are contingent on feelings and accidental conditions. The friendship of mutual admiration is most enduring, and complete, because they “wish well for each other for each other’s own sake”, in addition to being useful and pleasant to each other.
I like to say that employed individually and without complexity and integration into a brand’s persona, these approach models simply create brand ephemera
Get the mix right:
and you’d move your brand beyond the five minute fling and into something that would last.
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Beautiful post. I’ve been driving pretty hard lately for making things that have real, tangible value, and this put that in greater perspective. Good stuff.
Comment by Paul McEnany November 22, 2006 @ 3:49 ami think that digital media requires brands to actually provide benefits and more often than not tangible utility. the brands i’m closetst too, the one’s in my world are the one’s i use everyday as an integral part of my life - google, mozilla, apple, wordpress etc. other brands have to work harder to get in my world if they’re just trying to offer pleasure or be admirable [aspirational?] because i’m sceptical of people, brands and concepts that don’t *deliver*.
Comment by jamesb November 22, 2006 @ 2:46 pmNice post. I think another angle on the brand-consumer friendship metaphor is that of simple shared interests. A less intense (perhaps more shallow) alternative to mutual appreciation and shared values. As you say the balance must still be there - the substance of the relationship may still be utility (e.g. through shared information) and pleasure (comfort / reinforcement / self-identification etc).
Comment by mause November 23, 2006 @ 12:21 amThanks for your comments guys!
Paul: I have my pom-poms out to cheer you on your way to ‘real’ and ‘tangible value’. Gogogo!
James: delivery is the deal isn’t it? I think that brands underestimate our yearning for relationships that are based on something other than glitz.
Mause: I do think you’re right in identifying that not all brand relationships need be intense think shared interest is really the basis for any commercial relationship- it has to be mutually beneficial. I really do think that if you want to create affinity and advocates you need to move a little beyond this.
Comment by katiechatfield November 23, 2006 @ 6:54 am[...] post I wrote a while ago explored that over used term “relationship” in relation to brands: [...]
Pingback by Get Shouty June 24, 2007 @ 5:21 amthe analogy between friendship and branding is superb… godspeed!
Comment by Ankit Desai December 18, 2007 @ 11:52 am